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Networking

"People need People"

"If I have see a little further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants" - Isaac Newtown
"You are not ever a genius by yourself. Your ideas are a function of the people you are connected with.." - Carol Dweck, Author, Mindset

Knowing more people gives you :

  1. Greater Access
  2. Facilitates sharing of Information
  3. Widens your influence
  4. Enhances confidence levels

Access to private information which can be made use of :

  1. Referrals
  2. Appropriate name-dropping
  3. Number of people willing to help you
  4. Access to resources
  5. Emotional Support
  6. Gets you strategic influence

Networking for introverts :

  1. Like Me - Self-Similarity
  2. Near Me - Proximity
  3. Width and Depth - Bridging and Bonding

Most time is spent with :

  1. People in the department
  2. People in the same floor
  3. People in the same location

The wrong structures :

  1. The formalist - no informal connections
  2. The overloaded executive - wants to connect wih everyone, resulting in becoming a bottleneck to progress and burn out.

The wrong relationships :

  1. The disconnected expert - works with safe set of expertises and do not get out of their confort zone
  2. The biased executive - relies on advisers much like herself, who reinforce their own bias

The wrong behaviour :

  1. The chameleons - people who adjust their opinions to connect with others
  2. The superficial networker - Say hi to most people, without having any deep connections

Exercise for analyzing oneself :

Ratte yourslef on the following topics, with 1 being dows not describe me well at all" and 5 being "Describes me very well" :

Topic12345
I have many friends*
I make friends easily*
I like to have many friends*
I have many acquaintances*
I readily make connecttions with people I do not know*
I like to know a lot of people*
I put people in touch with the right people when they need something*
I find it easier to bring people together*
I like being able to connect people*

Items 1 - 3 are about making friends
Items 4 - 6 are about making acquaintances Items 7 - 9 are about connecting people

Adding the values of each rating.

Friends : 3 + 2 + 3 = 8
Acquaintances : 4 + 4 + 4 = 12
Connecting People : 4 + 2 + 4 = 10

This is out of 15.

Network Widthh - Comes from diversity
Nework Depth - Comes from Strong Newtorks

Bonding network
Bridging Network

Worth of a network is in the following dimensions :

  1. Operational
  2. Personal
  3. Strategic

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