Networking
"People need People"
"If I have see a little further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants" - Isaac Newtown
"You are not ever a genius by yourself. Your ideas are a function of the people you are connected with.." - Carol Dweck, Author, Mindset
Knowing more people gives you :
- Greater Access
- Facilitates sharing of Information
- Widens your influence
- Enhances confidence levels
Access to private information which can be made use of :
- Referrals
- Appropriate name-dropping
- Number of people willing to help you
- Access to resources
- Emotional Support
- Gets you strategic influence
Networking for introverts :
- Like Me - Self-Similarity
- Near Me - Proximity
- Width and Depth - Bridging and Bonding
Most time is spent with :
- People in the department
- People in the same floor
- People in the same location
The wrong structures :
- The formalist - no informal connections
- The overloaded executive - wants to connect wih everyone, resulting in becoming a bottleneck to progress and burn out.
The wrong relationships :
- The disconnected expert - works with safe set of expertises and do not get out of their confort zone
- The biased executive - relies on advisers much like herself, who reinforce their own bias
The wrong behaviour :
- The chameleons - people who adjust their opinions to connect with others
- The superficial networker - Say hi to most people, without having any deep connections
Exercise for analyzing oneself :
Ratte yourslef on the following topics, with 1 being dows not describe me well at all" and 5 being "Describes me very well" :
Topic | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
I have many friends | * | ||||
I make friends easily | * | ||||
I like to have many friends | * | ||||
I have many acquaintances | * | ||||
I readily make connecttions with people I do not know | * | ||||
I like to know a lot of people | * | ||||
I put people in touch with the right people when they need something | * | ||||
I find it easier to bring people together | * | ||||
I like being able to connect people | * |
Items 1 - 3 are about making friends
Items 4 - 6 are about making acquaintances Items 7 - 9 are about connecting people
Adding the values of each rating.
Friends : 3 + 2 + 3 = 8
Acquaintances : 4 + 4 + 4 = 12
Connecting People : 4 + 2 + 4 = 10
This is out of 15.
Network Widthh - Comes from diversity
Nework Depth - Comes from Strong Newtorks
Bonding network
Bridging Network
Worth of a network is in the following dimensions :
- Operational
- Personal
- Strategic